December 2009 - Posts

The Welcome Mat
Tuesday, December 01, 2009 12:14 AM

How to prepare for houseguests 

Along with presents and home cooked meals, one more thing you can count on this season is houseguests. There’s no other time of year better suited for bunking with your family. Grandma flies in from Florida, Uncle Jack and the kids drive in from Ohio, Cousin Molly hops a train from New York…And your house becomes the Holiday Inn! So, how do you prepare for your houseguests and what can you do to make them feel most at home? Read these tips so you’re ready to put on the party hat, deck the halls and enjoy the season with them!

 

Become a clean freak. Set aside an entire weekend to get your house in order, especially the rooms your guests will be sleeping in. Change the bed linens, dust everything, vacuum, and put away all the clutter. Adding some fresh flowers to their bedside table and chocolates to their pillows is a nice welcoming touch, as well.

 

Create an open-door policy. Make an extra set of house keys for your guests so they can come and go as they please. It’s possible not everyone will be on the same schedule and it’s important to make your guests feel at home, not imprisoned.

 

Pamper them like the penthouse. Fill a small basket with sample-size shampoos, conditioners, lotions, soaps and mouthwash and place it near a fresh stack of folded towels in the bathroom. You can find these items at most grocery stores and superstores.

 

Sometimes it takes more than sheep. Add some magazines and books and a small television to the guests rooms. Unfamiliar places can cause insomnia for some people. These added distractions can help them catch some zzz’s.

 

Rack ‘em up! Provide a suitcase rack so your guests can easily get in and out of their luggage without having to spread their clothes all over the floor. Also, clear out part of the closet and leave some empty hangers. Store some extra blankets and pillows in the closet, too.

 

Fill your shopping cart. Hit up the grocery store to make sure your house is stocked with plenty of beverages and bottled water, snacks (fresh fruit, cheese and crackers, chips, and cookies) and meal ideas for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Encourage your guests to help themselves when they are hungry. Consider filling a large basket with energy bars, microwave popcorn, candy, and other snacks, and putting it out on the counter for everyone to pick from.

 

Cameras optional. Once your guests arrive give them the grand tour. Show them where glasses, silverware, dishes, tea, coffee, doughnuts and cereal are located. Encourage them to help themselves any time.

 

While you are running around making sure your home is perfect, don’t forget to actually spend time with those visiting you. Remember, they came to visit you, not your house. Happy holidays!

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Tuesday, December 01, 2009 12:12 AM

Responsible facebook usage

Social networking has exploded into mainstream society. It seems like everyone has a Facebook page which means the personal information you post is suddenly visible to all. With the rise of Facebook popularity and the visibility we’re giving to friends, and maybe even co-workers, it’s important to remember to use the application responsibly.

 

It’s been a long day…you’re ready to go home, relax and decompress after 8 stressful hours at work. For some, that might mean checking out Facebook for your friends’ updates. Should you add your own status update venting about a disagreement at the office? Definitely not. When you’re Facebook friends with everyone from you second-grade best friend to your boss, it’s necessary to filter. While ethics might not be the first thing you think about when using Facebook, it’s important to remember that when you put information out there, it doesn’t disappear into a black hole of internet chatter. People read it.

 

Even if you’re not currently employed, but do have a Facebook account, potential employers may view your page to find out more about you. Employers may use Facebook to find out more information you didn’t provide in your resume or interview. If your photo albums are filled with your party-girl past, your potential employer might hold that against you. Since any written information or photos posted to a perspective employee’s account can be available to the public, including possible employers, it is not considered an invasion of privacy to view. 

 

An easy fix to prevent potential employers, co-workers and even other strangers from viewing your Facebook information is to use your privacy settings. Facebook allows users to limit what profile information can be viewed and even become completely invisible to everyone not considered a “friend.” So, if you’re using Facebook…and let’s face it, you probably are, remember to think before you post because no one really wants to share that much information with fellow employees. 

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